Meet
Maria Fernanda Bliss Pew

1991-2020
The inspiration of Maria's Voice

This work honors Maria’s life. Maria Fernanda Bliss Pew was murdered in her home in an act of domestic violence April, 2020. Maria was a daughter, cousin, niece, neighbor, friend … a woman you could know.

Maria always said she was one of the luckiest girls in the world to be adopted from an orphanage in Mexico City by Lissa and Bill. Gratitude, fairness and joy was Maria’s true north. She doted on Bill, Lissa, her dogs and horses. In return, she was very loved. Maria worked hard to be a summa cum laude college grad, a talented gymnast, and a competitive Cheerleader. Drawn to nature, she loved her feet in the sand, sunsets, the ocean and beach. She delighted in telling and hearing the same family stories over again at a campfire. 

Maria dreamed big and was always working hard to accomplish her next goal. Just a bit before she died, she asserted, “Mom, I am a work in progress and proud of it. In Mexico, she said, “Mom, dad, I have found my people.” She consistently worked toward her best self, sweet, serious, magical and kind.

Maria wants you to experience a safe home with trusting relationships, children, joy and frequent dog kisses. Do that in celebration of Maria Fernanda Bliss Pew, a woman you would have really liked. A woman who wants the best for you.

How does a summa cum laude college grad, with a loving family get murdered by a domestic abuser in her home?

How does that happen to a confident, baton-taser-carrying, self-assured woman? Answer: She did not know the signs of domestic abuse to avoid or get out early in the relationship!

But listen now. Maria’s story does not want pity. She DOES want you to understand what happened to her and her family. Learn the common behaviors of domestic abusers to help yourself and others. Be aware of professional resources and know that you deserve a safe home and equal, healthy relationships.